I wish I had a gay dating and relationship coach when I was in my 20’s. I would have been able to make lots of more friends and my relationships would not have been as rocky. This article will answer the following three questions:
- How will a gay dating or gay relationship coach help me?
- How much does it cost to hire a gay relationship expert?
- How long will it take me to find someone with help of a gay dating and relationship coach?
How will a gay dating or gay relationship coach help me?
Gay dating coach is often not a therapist nor a psychologist. The biggest difference is that he will focus on your future and not on your past. He will help you formulate a dating and gay men philippines relationship strategy by setting up on line profiles on many different dating websites and will have access to other men with whom he will try to match you up with.
He will help you eliminate all mistakes stemming from your lack of experience or lack of knowledge of social and emotional intelligence issues. Simple things such as: not judging, not criticizing, complimenting someone all the time, not picking fights about petty stuff are amongst the basics for having a healthy emotional connection with your partner or a date.
Often you will go on date for dinner and when the check comes you will not know who should pay. A gay dating and relationship coach will help you make these subtle decisions to establish your role in a relationship or in a dating situation.
Man-to-man relationships require different approach than traditional man-woman relationships. Men are very protective of their ego and you must be observant about not hurting it. A dating coach will teach you what to say or what not to say when you are in the presence of another man especially if you want that man to fall in love with you.
Gay dating coach will shorten the time it takes for you to get to know someone by pointing out techniques, mindsets and facts of life that influence his behavior and your communication. By telling you that your tone of voice, your clothes and your enthusiasm matter when you are on a date – you will be more likely to shorten the time it takes to get to know him by 50% and eliminate many risks for a break up.
How much does it cost to hire a gay relationship expert?
It depends on the package that you select. Typically you pay $50-$120 per session and spend about 2-3 hours a week with your coach. This depends on your age and the experience level. The older you get the more time is necessary so that you can get the fastest “return on your investment”.
Pay close attention to whether your coach is already in a gay relationship or not. If the person that is helping you to get into a relationship does not have one himself, ask why. Many people want to tell others what to do without understanding the difficulty of what they are suggesting. This is actually pretty common in many “life” coaching and personal coaching occupations.